upset

Dear Randa
I have this clinging problem. When i first like a guy or sometimes when i make a new friend (depends on who it is), i go in this clinging phase where i really get attached. The thing is that i don't realize that I'm annoying them since im doing it out of love. Someone has to point it out or when they're no longer around, I think about what i did and i always figure its the clingy problem that drove them away. I don't know how to stop it. What do you think i should do?
From Upset

Dear Upset
It sounds like you realize you have a problem which is good. Instead of thinking back on the situation after its too late and realizing that you were too clingy. Think about the clinginess when your doing it. But dotn get too paranoid about it. It might all be in your head. Talk to the people around you and ask them what makes you clingy. Ask them to tell you when your being clingy. You can fix it if it really is a problem. Start with the people around you and work your way out. Everyone has theyre good points and if you ant fix your clinginess then you can give people a reason to want you around. Remember fix in and work your way out.
Randa Moustafa