from confused

Dear Randa,

I already have a boyfriend, but at parties, I get tipsy or drunk, and always end up making out with someone else. I don't realize when we're making out, but when I start sobering up, I feel so guilty and stupid. My boyfriend forgave me once, and I didn't tell him about the other ones. I can't forgive myself, and I don't want him with a girl like me. What do I do? Should I break up with him and let him find someone better?

From Confused

Dear confused,

It sounds like you really love your boyfriend. It takes alot of guts to make a decision like letting someone go. You need to ask your self certain questions that will help you decide. I cant make the decision for you. Can you control your self when you drink? do you have the self control it takes to not drink to the point where you cant control you self? From what you send me you only hookup with people when you drink. So drink moderatly or dont drink at all. Your boyfried forgave you once which means he truly loves you too. Dont give him up yet. Try and work it out with yourself and if you really cant control yourself them maybe you should let him go. Bieng cheated on isnt a good feeling. Dont hurt yourself and your boyfriend. Control your drinking or loose your boyfriend its that simple.

Randa Moustafa