relationship problems

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Sweet (6:08:36 PM): my ex, who broke up with me
Sweet (6:08:45 PM): wants to b my friend
Sweet (6:08:55 PM): but shes the most boring person n the world
Sweet (6:09:31 PM): and i actually enjoyed the relationship bc of the sexual experiences and i loved buying her nice things and makin her smile
Sweet (6:09:45 PM): bc once that stopped i realized how boring she is
Sweet (6:09:49 PM): even more
Sweet (6:09:52 PM): but
Sweet (6:09:59 PM): its fucked up to jusstop talkin to her
Sweet (6:10:23 PM): bc she really wants to b my friend
Sweet (6:10:33 PM): i tried to get back wit her and she said no
Sweet (6:10:41 PM): i wanna pull my hair out

Honestly if being with her is that horrible. The only thing you can do is to fade. Don’t just stop talking to her. Be her friend, hang out with her, talk to her. No matter how boring it is for you she deserves that much from you as your ex. Many people that that just because your not dating anymore you wont have anything in common with the person. Look my advice is be her friend you might find something there that isn’t boring. And if you cant find anything there fade. Slowly extract your self from her life. You don’t have to answer every text. You don’t have to pick up every call. Your not her boy friend anymore. You can reject an invitation to go out now and then. Treat her as you would any friend and youll find that slowly shell fade from your life, or become a friend. Your not in hs anymore and im assuming the ex doesn’t live next door you can pull your self out of her life with out causing drama. Just be a friend